{"id":776,"date":"2017-03-18T19:25:12","date_gmt":"2017-03-18T18:25:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.au-pair-grenz.de\/neu\/au-pair-programm\/"},"modified":"2023-05-02T14:41:48","modified_gmt":"2023-05-02T12:41:48","slug":"au-pair-program-in-germany","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/au-pair-grenz.de\/en\/au-pair-program-in-germany\/","title":{"rendered":"Au-pair program in Germany"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Au-pair program in Germany<\/h1><\/span>
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With an Au-pair program, young people from all parts of the world are given the opportunity to live with a German host family for a certain period of time (usually 6 to 12 months). They get to know the daily family life of their host family, improve their German language skills and get an interesting insight into another culture. The tasks of an Au-pair are mainly in the childcare but also in the occasional assistance in the household, in return, the family provides catering, accommodation, and a pocket money. The Au-pair program is very advantageous and interesting for both parties (host family and Au-pair). An Au-pair is by no means to be regarded as a domestic worker but as a family member.<\/p>\n<\/div>

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Requirements for the guest family:<\/h2><\/div>
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    Married couples, single parents or unmarried couples with children;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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    At least one parent must be of German nationality or nationality of an EU \/ EEA state or Switzerland and the mother tongue of the family must be German. If the family speaks German as a family language, an Au-pair may not come from a home country of the host parents;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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    A separate room for the Au-pair within the family home, house must be available;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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    The family must be financially able to pay for the Au-pair\/work.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul>

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    Requirements for Au-pair:<\/h2><\/div>
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      Age 18 – 26 years;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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      First-time Au-pair stay in Germany;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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      Be single and have no children of your own;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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      Have at least basic knowledge of the German language. (Provable by a \u00a0\u00a0German certificate A1-Levels or higher, for German-language students please provide a copy of the diploma or study certificate);<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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      Experience in childcare<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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      Be healthy.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul>

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      Tasks of an Au-pair<\/h2><\/div>
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      The daily tasks of an Au-pair are very different. They depend entirely on the individuality and the lifestyle of the family that the Au-pair has taken with them.<\/p>\n<\/div>

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      The everyday life of an Au-pair generally includes:<\/h3><\/div>
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        To supervise the younger children, that means, to supervise them and accompany them on their way to the nursery school or school or to certain events, to walk or play with them;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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        To prepare breakfast and simple meals;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul>

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          To perform light housework, to help keep the apartment clean and in order, to wash and to iron the laundry;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li>

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          The house or the apartment helped to guard and to take care of the pets.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul>

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            The nursing and care of the elderly (care of dependent family members) are NOT the duties of an Au-pair!<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul>

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            Rules and conditions of the Au-pair program<\/span><\/h2><\/div>
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            Duration of the Au-pair relationship<\/h2><\/div>
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            The Au-pair ratio must last at least 6 months and can last a maximum of one year. Re-employment as an Au-pair is not possible, even if the maximum duration of one year has not been exhausted.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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            Pocket money and travel expenses<\/h2><\/div>
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            The aim and purpose of an Au-pair relationship are the completion of the language skills (possibly the professional experience) as well as the expansion of the general knowledge through a better knowledge of the host country. An Au-pair, therefore, does not receive a working wage in the usual sense, but merely a so-called pocket money. It is currently 280 \u20ac per month, regardless of the length of the housework. As a rule, the Au-pair pays the costs for the journey.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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            Work and leisure time<\/h2><\/div>
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            The tasks in the household (including babysitting) may not be more than 6 hours a day and 30 hours a week. If this period is exceeded for special reasons, a prior agreement is required. The overtime must be compensated. The family can be asked for the Au-pair to handle the transferred tasks in a determined time. The handling of private things (eg cleaning and cleaning up one\u2019s own room) does not count as housework. The classification of the housework time depends on the domestic habits and needs of the host family. However, a certain regularity can be expected. The Au-pair has at least 1,5 rest day in the week (not necessarily on the weekend, but at least one Sunday in the month must be free). In addition, at least 4 free nights per week to be granted.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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            Vacation<\/h2><\/div>
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            If an Au-pair is granted to the family for a full year, they are entitled to a paid holiday of 4 weeks. Otherwise for every full month a holiday of 2 business days. If the family goes on holiday, they often take the Au-pair with them. In this case, however, the Au-pair must also assume certain tasks and obligations (childcare, etc.). A family holiday, however, count only as a holiday, if only minor tasks have to be undertaken and there is no obligation to attend. If the Au-pair does not take part in the family holiday, employment with another family (neighbors, acquaintances, etc.) is not permitted.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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            Accommodation and catering<\/h2><\/div>
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            Accommodation and meals are provided by the family free of charge. In principle, the Au-pair has its own room within the family apartment. It participates in the common meals and receives the same meals as the family members. If a particular nutritional form is wanted, this should be indicated in the application.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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            language course<\/h2><\/div>
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            Each Au-pair is given the opportunity to take part in a German language course in his free time as well as to visit cultural and mentally stimulating events. The host family is obligated to participate in the cost of the language course with 70 \u20ac monthly. However, the Au-pair must bear the costs for other events himself.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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            Health and accident insurance<\/h2><\/div>
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            For the Au-pair an insurance in case of illness, pregnancy, and childbirth, as well as an accident, has to be concluded in Germany. All insurance contributions are to be borne by the family. (Costs about 40 \u20ac monthly).<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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            Termination of the Au-pair ratio<\/h2><\/div>
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            The Au-pair relationship ends after the expiry of the agreed time. Unless a notice period has been agreed upon, the contractual relationship can only be terminated by mutual agreement before the end of this period (termination agreement). In most cases, both parties agree that the Au-pair will stay until another family is found. If a serious reason is present, the Au-pair relationship can be terminated without notice. Apart from this case, it is self-evident that one does not separate oneself in the first days of living together; The first \u201ccultural shock\u201d (for example, due to the different lifestyle and eating habits) will be overcome by good in a short time. If, however, a harmonious cohabitation is not possible, the Au-pair agency should be informed as soon as possible. It will try to get an overview and try to find a mutually acceptable solution.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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            Sophie from Zimbabwe, Au-pair-year in Germany: 11.2017 \u2013 11.2018<\/h2><\/div>
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            \"\"It was so exciting waiting in the airport to board my plane; I\u2019ll never forget how hard I tried to keep down my smile. It was one moment in my life when I really knew I was doing the right thing. First of all, Germany is absolutely beautiful. I love everything about it: the sights, the people, the food, the language, and the European way of thinking. I dove straight into it and have never regretted it since.<\/p>\n

            I have gone to Germany because I wanted to improve my language, travel, learning new culture, find new friends and, of course, to experience Germany family life from the inside. I expected this experience to be very different from any experiences I\u2019ve ever had before; and I truly was right about it! I loved every single part of it, even some negative moments I’ve had can’t make me look at it in a different way! It’s probably because I was lucky to get the best host family ever. At first the weather in Germany really confused me. It was cold, snowy and dark. I was not used to it, but after two weeks I was feeling more comfortable. I was taking care of three kids. They were really kind and polite. My duties where tidying up children\u2019s rooms, kitchen , living and dining room every day in the morning and around 2pm the children will come back from school and I will start playing with them till 7pm when they go to bed.<\/p>\n

            My first vacation was paid, I got a chance to visit Castle Neuschweinstein the most visited Castle in Germany .I visited the castle because it was one of the things I wrote in my dear letter family and I wanted to visit it. I visited many Museums, and I got to tour Germany cities like Frankfurt, Munich and small towns\u2019 .It was an adventurous year. Me and my friend attended Oktober fest in Munich. With my host family we went to vacation with the kids, I’m very grateful to them for taking me with them. It was truly unforgettable. I was taking care of the kids, but at the same time it wasn’t like real work, but more like a vacation to me too. I was especially excited to see more beautiful places in Germany I\u2019ve never even dreamed about having an opportunity to see them, it was more like a fairy tale to me….but it was real.<\/p>\n

            Improved the language<\/strong><\/p>\n

            I got to improve my language a lot by communicating with the children l was taking care of and attending languages courses even though my German was broken at first but as time goes on I improved and I am still improving. In the German class I attended, there were people from all over the world. It was amazing because we all had different backgrounds and different experiences, but we each could speak German, and that was what we had in common. When I was with my friends, I had so much fun. We shared our rough and good au pair experiences. I tried interacting with people as much as I could, even if I wasn’t sure if I can express myself as I wanted to. When I just got to Germany I could barely express myself because I was forgetting the words, and now its better.<\/p>\n

            How has my Au Pair experience changed me?<\/strong><\/p>\n

            The majority of Au Pairs that I know have decided to take on this experience for a variety of reasons, with improving German being the main goal. As an Aupair I was often asked \u201c why did you choose to come to Germany instead of other countries?\u201d My response \u201cI decided to become an Au Pair in Germany for a number of reasons. I wanted to build character, experience living in a completely different environment, all whilst working with children and meeting new people. I started to see things from another part of the world. I described the world and my life in another language. I loved to see how people in a different culture would describe things, react to things, or deal with situations. I would be tired every night because my brain was working overtime taking everything in and translating every conversation for the entire day. Everyday provided me with opportunities to learn, grow and build character. I learnt about the German culture and the variety of cultures within the country. Not only am I becoming more comfortable with myself, I feel matured, being independent and developing my knowledge on different cultures and ways of life.<\/p>\n

            \"\"I have gained confidence in myself<\/strong><\/p>\n

            The thought of going abroad was always on my mind, and that\u2019s where it stayed for many years. Every now and then the urge to travel would set in but I couldn\u2019t see myself actually doing it. That was until I made the first step. Being an Au Pair has given me the confidence to believe in myself. Remember that a family have chosen you from a list of candidates, to provide care for their children. If they have confidence in you, then you should have confidence in yourself.<\/p>\n

            My outlook on life has changed<\/strong><\/p>\n

            Before this experience, I always thought life was about finding a good job and settling down. Now I realize that life is about experiencing as much as possible, taking everything as it comes, putting you out there and finding the positives in all situations. One of the biggest changes that I\u2019ve noticed is my desire to gain experience. I value the experiences I have, the scenes I see, and the people I meet, opposed to having a variety of materialistic items.<\/p>\n

            I am open to change<\/strong><\/p>\n

            This has been a time to test my abilities to adapt to new situations. Moving across the world and changing jobs, I knew that I would need to adapt quickly to the changes. Including living in another home and driving on the opposite side of the road. As a result, I opened my mind and welcomed change to allow myself to adapt to the new situations.
            \nMeeting people with different cultures, beliefs and outlooks has broadened my knowledge and appreciation for how others live. As an Au Pair you will meet a number of people from different countries who share different beliefs to yourself. You will learn to appreciate your own culture and the cultures of others.<\/p>\n

            I appreciate my friends, family and home country<\/strong><\/p>\n

            This experience has made me really appreciate my family and friends back in Zimbabwe. I\u2019ve always heard the saying \u2018Distance makes the heart grow fonder\u2019. Now I can identify with this as I haven\u2019t seen my family in over a year and the distance has definitely made me appreciate our relationships. I am grateful for the support they offered me as I embark on this journey.
            \nAbove all I have fallen in love with Germany and am planning to stay and see how it goes!<\/p>\n

            Sophie 05.12.2018<\/p>\n<\/div>

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            Andile from Zimbabwe, Au-pair-year in Germany: 07.2017 \u2013 07.2018<\/h2><\/div>
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            July 2017 to July 2018 was a challenging fun filled year as an au-pair in Germany playing with a 6 year old boy, travelling around Europe and the exhilarating German amusement parks rides. It’s very hard to compress a year to be a short story. Well I hope the pictures will do justice in showing my German experience. Au-pairs have a lot of free time and most of them would ask me how I managed to tour most of the parts of Europe and do so many activities my answer was the au-pair ID from my au-pair agent. I got to travel on affordable fares using bla bla car. I had challenges in getting used to driving in the small streets of Germany but got the adrenalin rush of driving on the autobahn. I met people from all over the world and got to share ideas. There were times when I felt home sick and my host family was always there for me and they helped me to overcome it. I got to attend the world famous October festival, the Christmas markets, visited Mercedes-Benz museum, Merkers underground mine. I also got the opportunity to visit other European countries as the Visa gives access to more than 25 European countries. I went to France Strasbourg, Switzerland Bern, Zurich, Vevey, Basel and Madrid Spain. I visited a lot of German cities and towns namely Frankfurt, Stuttgart, Dusseldorf, Cologne, Karlsruhe, Baden baden, B\u00fchl, Fulda, Kassel, Reutlingen, Bodensee, Vacha, Friedewald, Heringen and Bad Hersfeld. I do not regret the time I spent as an au-pair in Germany as I got to realise the extremes of cultural differences and I learnt to embrace them. The aupair year experience increased the chances of me being admitted to college in Canada which was a dream come true\u2026.<\/p>\n

            Andile 18.08.2018<\/p>\n<\/div>

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